You have to choose yourself, even when other's REFUSE to.
Self love is choosing yourself and choosing yourself is self care.
You keep entertaining the wrong things with the wrong people because you're struggling with loving yourself. People will ALWAYS treat you how you treat yourself. Act accordingly.
It's okay to take a break. It's okay to take a moment for yourself.
And It's DEFINITELY okay to be selfish if it means rediscovering your own power and happiness.