I hope you know this by now...and if you don't...welcome to reality, Love!
While you're busy planning out your life piece by piece, life is actually out there somewhere making it's own plans...plans that most certainly will clash with AND overpower yours.
TF DO I DO WITH THAT?What do you do with that? That's a good question.
Do you panic? Throw a fit and raise your blood-pressure to the Gods??
Go the f*ck off on anything and everything that looks like it's got ears to hear?!?
You pick yourself up and you move the f*ck forward. What's in the past is in the past and you can't change that. Period. The sooner you make peace with this fact, the more powerful you'll be in creating your reality. It's called "Radical Acceptance." Your ability to accept the fact that life's got curveballs for days will give you the power to adjust to its sudden changes....maybe even to the point where you can start catching some of them b!tches, ya feel me?