Love seeing all your flaws and blemishes and accepting them.
Love is accepting all your bad habits and mannerism, and working around them.
Love is recognizing all your fears and insecurities, and knowing your role is to comfort yourself as you build yourself up and beyond them.
Love is working through all your challenges and painful times.
Love is strong and it strengthens because it's real. You willingly use it for others, right? Try using it for yourself for a change.