"I had to take a step back, get all the way real with my life, and ask myself why tf I wanted a man (who made it obvious with his actions) that he didn't want me?
Why make space in my intimate life for a person who doesn't even appreciate the act of making space for them? Why would I continue to make an effort for a man who doesn't match that same effort for me?
In doing that, I realized that he wasn't the problem anymore...it was me.
I had become my own problem by sticking around a bullshit situation, and I needed to fix my fucking self."
The Crimson Kiss