The average person ain't really tryna hear this, but the relationships that last the longest often involve A TON of forgiveness.
You have to accept the fact that your partner IS NOT perfect and may hurt you, disappoint you, and upset you.
You have to figure out whether or not you're willing to go through the ups and down with them.
This ain't about putting up with shitty treatment.
This is about two imperfect humans wanting and willing to do the work to create a relationship that is mostly magical and that they can BOTH benefit from spiritually, emotionally, and physically.