"I knew she was powerful when she told me that every time she lost love, she found that SAME love twice within herself."
People come and go in our lives. The Woman who can hold herself together despite the coming and going of it all will prove to be a Woman of tremendous strength if her foundation is rooted in a healthy type of self-worth. This won't make it hurt any less. The pain of losing friends, lovers, and loved ones is real. But as long as she doesn't lose herself when they leave, she'll survive.
That is why it's so important for a Woman to learn how to love herself. Nobody's presence is permanent. We have to come to terms with the facts of life and death...and the fact that people get to do what they want and that might mean NOT being with you. Even if she finds the love of her life...she will one day have to deal with the fact that either she or them will one day have to walk alone because death visits us all eventually.
Loss is a very normal part of life. Loss of self, however, shouldn't be.